Don’t worry if you didn’t ring in the new year with a bang! You have all week to catch up.
While January 2nd is officially National baby-making day, and the 3rd is National Blow Job day, the entire week is the most popular week of the year to get it on.
Whether you are trying for the September baby or just looking forward to a week of fooling around we have a few tips to make sure you’re having better sex in 2018 than in any year before.
It doesn’t matter if you’re single, in a relationship, inexperienced, gay, straight, bi, trans, curious, queer or undefinable-If you think you’ve checked everything off your sex bucket list there are always ways to spice up your sex lives.
Sex without Intercourse
Women have recently become more vocal about the fact that often intercourse alone is not enough stimulation to reach orgasm. With this information, it is time to learn to love outer-course or at least give it a try. Not only will extra attention to the clitoris and scrotum bring on stronger orgasms but often can create stronger ones, while also leaving the option for multiple orgasms before overstimulation and exhaustion can bring things to an end.
Give the Gift of Gab
This is even more important for those of you in relationships. Being able to talk about what you like and dislike is paramount to building a better sex life with your partner. Remember that they have already seen you naked and heard you at your most vulnerable moments.
There is no need to feel awkward or shy talking about what was right and what didn’t work for you. It’s also important to try and embrace your desires so go ahead and try talking through your fantasies with your partner you may find something you both want to try.
Amp up the Attention
When it comes to sex there are so many aspects to pay attention to. A great lover should enjoy paying attention to not only their partner’s body but also to their reactions in the heat of the moment.
Don’t forget to also pay attention to yourself. Masturbation can improve your sex life significantly. The more familiar you are with what feels good to you the easier it will be for you to convey your desires to your partner. Spending a few moments each day turning your attention to the actual act of sex will also go a long way for keeping you in the mood if you find yourself often burned out or to busy for it.
Reflect on a particularly arousing sex session with your partner or even just entertaining one of your fantasies being acted out by the two of you in your mind can do wonders for your sex drive.
Happy New Year! We hope these tips will help you during your adventures this week.
