Sex (or lovemaking if that makes you feel better), can be a really sublime experience if done with the right person in the right mood.
There is no two ways about it; sex plays a very focal role in each of our lives. Whether you are a woman living in Africa, leading your career in Washington DC, or the little lady living in an igloo among the Inuits, it all boils down to one plain truth: we all seek sexual satisfaction or fulfillment.
However, not all men that are gifted at pleasing a woman in bed. Though some women have unusual demands, if a man plays his cards well, then he could end up satisfying his woman.
In this article, we will be looking at some things that most, if not all, woman hate that men do while practicing the art of love making. Do these things and I give you my word; you won’t satisfy your woman. It’s often mistaken, but enjoying sex is different from getting satisfied.
Let’s have a look at some of those things that women hate in bed.
Calling Another Woman’s Name
Calling another woman’s name while you are getting down with your woman is a taboo in all women’s dictionary. This is one quick way of killing a woman’s libido; and this alone has been the root of many broken relationships.
Never call another woman’s name, plain and simple! Instead learn to keep your mouth shut, or use pet names. Calling another name, aside from exposing that you are a cheating prick, tells that you don’t value her enough, and you are probably thinking of someone else while on top of her.
Being Greedy
There is nothing that hurts a woman more than a greedy lover. We all know that guy who only thinks of his sexual fulfilment and little or none about his partner’s. This is totally selfish.
Now don’t get me wrong, there is a difference between not knowing that you haven’t satisfied your woman, and not caring. Lack of giving your woman some attention and foreplay is a good way to show her you don’t care. Just thrusting into her fast and furious without seducing her first comes off pretty selfish. Domineering the art of love making, macho-style, unless she’s clearly stated it’s something she likes, can seem really greedy.
A 2-Minutes Man
If you really want to see an aroused woman get pissed off, give her a 2 minute round of sex.
Women really hate this! It falls back into the selfish/greedy category. If you can’t last more than two strokes before you’re done; learn the art of foreplay and learn it well. Find ways to please your woman before you jump into the act, or at least after. The anger really comes on if you finish in two minutes and roll over to sleep or God forbid ask for a sandwich. At that point it’s time to duck and cover.
Not saying your woman is going to run off with the mailman just because you can’t perform long enough to get her off, but it’s a good way to find yourself playing second fiddle to a drawer full of vibrating toys.
Forcing Your Sex Ideologies on Her
There are some men that have some really weird or strange ideologies during sex. For instance, they like tying their partner up like a sacrificial goat during sex. Not all women like this. Some other men like getting it from the rear. Also, not all women like this. Some men love being beaten by their women before they can enjoy lovemaking. Also, not all women are fans of such a thing.
Never force your desires or sexual ideologies on the woman, especially by surprise. Instead have a conversation with her, explain what you like and don’t like. But above all, listen to what she says she is willing to try and where she draws a line in the sand. Most women, if they love you, are willing to try some crazy things to get you going. Just make sure you’re willing to open your mind and body up to her sexual fantasies as well.
Comparing Her Skills to Your Ex
Even if your lady is not meeting up to your expectations in the bedroom, the least you could do is work with her or lovingly let her know how you want things to be done.
Never compare her skills to that of your ex. It hurts! How would you like her saying you aren’t as good as her ex, or you don’t quite “measure up”? Figured as much, which is why this is a huge no-no. It’s an easy way to make her feel insecure, and this could lead to some serious relationship problems.
Making Calls or Answering Calls during Sex
Lovemaking time is supposed to be your time as a couple; the time where and when you show her that she is the number one person in your life and on our mind. Channelling such times into making or answering calls, no matter how busy you claim to be, is unheard of. Women totally detest this. Having to break off from sex to answer a 2 hour call is a great way to find yourself playing solo.
Being Violent and Hard-Driven
Some women do not enjoy sexually violent men. However, as is the case with almost everything, there are plenty of women out there that do. If this is something you’re into and she isn’t, it’s gut check time. You can either try to use sex as an atmosphere where you let go and pour out the soft and caring side of you, or decide things just aren’t going to work and it’s time to move on. Though sex isn’t everything, this is a case where such a desire can break a relationship if forced upon either party.
Well, the list is not exhaustive. There are loads of things that women hate during love making like having body odour, bad breathe, and unruly pubic hair to name a few. Let’s be honest though, men don’t exactly appreciate those either. So let’s all try a little harder at thinking of our partners needs as much as our own, and open up those lines of communication. There’s nothing worse than a need going unmet because you didn’t feel you could open up and talk to your partner. Remember, if you’re doing something your man or woman hates in bed, odds are they aren’t giving their all to the experience. If you want the best out of them, give them the best out of you!
