Everyone has read about, or seen movies about BDSM right? I mean let’s be honest almost all of us read Fifty shade books or maybe even watched the movies, but do you actually know what it entails? interested maybe? Find out if it’s right for you..

What is BDSM? Bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism.
Bondage- this is having your partner restricted in their movement, with ropes, handcuffs, or any other restraints.
Discipline- You and your partner agree to rules and punishments to completely dominant your partner, this can be in the bedroom or outside of the bedroom.
Submission- You or your partner completely show submission to your partner, to their actions or wishes whatever they may be.
Sadism or Masochism- You and your partner get pleasure out of inflicting pain or receiving pain from your partner in emotional or physical ways.

If you’re having trouble orgasm, stale sex is the worst right? Ready to spice it up in the bedroom there are ways to slowly get into the kink of BDSM
•Use a spoon or a round kitchen utility that can be good for spanking.
•knee high boots, leggings
•Clothespins for nipple clamps
•Use icee
•use a tie to tie your partner up
•Feature
•buy a flogger
•Buy a whip
These are just a few beginner items to get or use to spice up your sex life, learn what you like, learn what your partner likes, explore. Next week we will move into more BDSM toys




