Many people want to try doing new things but have zero idea on what they are into, what will work, and what will not in bed. Here are some sex ideas to try next time you’re getting dirty.
Talk Dirty- Everyone loves hearing dirty shit in bed, yes everyone! Describe what you are feeling, tell your partner how good it feels, how good they’re doing, whisper in their ear what you are feeling, tell them what you want, anything you hold back that you want to say, say it.
Ice- using ice is one way to get down and chilly, explore their entire body, trace every curve of their body with the ice cube in your mouth, or trace the ice down their body with your fingers. This will give your partner a chilly sensation that will drive them insane!
Blindfold- Ever want to know how it would feel to not know what’s coming next? Being blindfolded or blindfolding someone will allow them to concentrate on the sensation rather than with their eyes. They will lose control completely.
Tie them up- If you’re just starting out with some kink tying someone up is just right for you, take a scarf, a tie, or something soft and go at it, tie your partner up in different positions get comfortable with tying different knots and find different areas to tie them up.
Spanking- Spanking is hot, however do not just whack someone out of nowhere, there is definitely a time to spank or you will kill the hot moment. When you are having some crazy wild sex getting hot and heavy try a light spank on their ass and see how they react, this can be the entry way into some more spanks, if they react great go at it, but definitely take it one spank at a time.
Pulling their hair- Next time your partner is running their tongue down your stomach going down gentle rub your fingers through their hair and tug a little make sure you have a firm grip closer to their scalp before doing so, the trick to make it feel good is getting a big chunk of hair and go for it, only getting little strands will kill the mood.
Watching- watching your partner master-bait is a turn on for everyone, let them watch you, looking right at them, making eye contact, lick your lips, make noise. It can get anyone going.
These are some starter ideas for you and your partner to get into some light kink, spice things up, changing things up in the bedroom can keep the excitement alive. More beginner kink ideas to come.. stay tuned
