Foreplay is such an important part of all forms of sex, and oral is no exception. Teasing and tantalizing your woman will not only increase her chances of orgasm by 50% but also make for better more intense orgasms. So here are some tips to help you tease her with your tongue.

Make her wait to even be teased

Kiss from her mouth down to her breasts. Keep kissing her body as you lower yourself to her waist and hips. As you get to her panties, place a hand on either leg and slowly spread them. Pay extra attention to her erogenous zones on your way down. Don’t take her panties off yet. Instead, kiss her vulva/vagina through her panties and even squeeze it lightly with your lips. You can also softly run your tongue over her vagina from the bottom right up to the clit with that thin barely there layer of fabric helping you build the anticipation.

Leave her in that wanting state

Once she’s basically begging you, or trying herself, to move her panties to the side, start making your way lower down her body. Kiss your way down along her inner thigh, down to the inside of her knee. Move to the other knee and kiss your way back up. You shouldn’t go any lower than her knees as it isn’t as sensitive and unless she has a foot fetish you can undo your work spending to long not between her thighs. If your partner likes things a little rougher you can alternate nibbling and squeezing her thighs between kisses. Once you have made your way back to her panties tease her over them one more time just for good measure.

Strip her down

If she hasn’t already taken her panties off, place your fingers on either side of them, on the outside of her hips and slowly pull them down until they are all the way off. Now start slowly kissing and licking (extremely softly) all around her vagina and clit. The edge of your lips should be making a tiny amount of contact with her vagina and clit as you move your way around constantly teasing her.

At this point she should be all but begging. Enjoy the main course!