Are you trying to cultivate the perfect clitoral orgasm? First things first: as you are fingering your girl and bringing her to orgasm, you absolutely must seek her feedback. It’s the only way to truly know if you’re pleasing and satisfying her and not causing her any discomfort, to much pain can kill the pleasure and desensitize her. Now for the tips to make sure your fingers are the best she’s ever had.
While the vaginal stimulation can contribute to orgasm, most women find that their clit is the most sensitive area and should be caressed, stimulated, rubbed and loved if you want to bring to her to orgasm easily when fingering her. Even if you do not do anything else, rubbing her clit is enough for most women to climax, provided you’ve got her in the mood first foreplay is always required even when you’re just fingering not fucking.
You can rub up & down, side-to-side or at any angle. It’s really that simple. However, there are a few important provisos to making sure it is pleasurable for her. You’ll almost always need some kind of lube, otherwise, it will feel more painful than pleasurable for most women. Forgot to bring the lube? Just lightly press your finger into her vagina first and using her natural lubrication as lube on your fingertip. If you ever feel your finger drying out, then just return to her vagina.
Next, is figuring out what type of rubbing she responds to best. Direct stimulation of her clit with your finger or indirect at the edge of her clit. Some women prefer their hood pulled back others don’t as it makes it to intense. Hard or light pressure or somewhere in between? Fast, slow or medium rubbing? As always, the key to truly satisfying her is figuring out what SHE enjoys, and the best way to do that is to simply ask “do you like that?” “Tell me how you want me to finger you?” Not only will you be dirty talking but also allowing her to tell you exactly how she wants it. You could even take this a step farther and tell her to show you how she wants you to finger her, then you get to watch her cum for you as well as see exactly what she likes best.
