There is a lot of stigma about casual sex! Is it really that bad? Does it make you a fuck boy? Or does it make women look bad? Realistically it’s up to any women or man what she or he does with their own bodies, some people just want to be able to get off, have some good convo, and sex then move on with their days without needed to call the next day.
A one-night stand doesn’t really need rules, however a pattern of casual sex does need some clear guidelines laid out for the best chance of success. This doesn’t need to be a very deep conversation, it can be as simple as: “Are you cool with keeping this casual? No big deal if you aren’t, I just want to be on the same page because that’s what I’m looking for.” Casual sex may sound like a free romp in the hay no strings attached, but it really does take a little bit of investment to make sure you are both clear on what exactly you are engaging in and just how far you are both willing to go
Casual sex does not include pillow talk or after sex snacks. Prolonged proximity leads to intimacy. If you hang out with someone long enough, you become friends, and then you’re friends who are regularly sleeping together and spending more and more time together and things can get messy. You don’t need to immediately run out the door after your roll together, just be aware that things like showering together or cuddling up and watching a show after sex can lead places you are not looking to go.
Most hookups happen by meeting an individual you find attractive and wanna fuck, it’s that simple, Maybe some tinder hook up, or maybe you meet in a bar, either way do whatever the hell you want to that’s the beauty of no rules.
