Sex talk is seen as embarrassing to many people, we live in a world where you can talk about anything, drugs, guns, violence, however we still don’t talk about sex. It’s completely normal to have sexual needs, wants and desires.
So, how do you have a really great relationship, if you’re not having great sex? And how do you have really good sex if you don’t have clear and open communication?
First and foremost talk about your triggers, what you can tolerate and what you never will. If you don’t like being called a bitch in the bedroom say it, if it turns you off say it, but you also have to tell them what you do like, if you want to be spanked ask for it. But by communicating what turns you off or on builds a trust that you need for a great sex life.
Another topic you need to discuss is what you like AFTER sex, some people like to turn around and fall asleep with no cuddling this can be a turn off so many, others like to just get up and keep it moving, communicate what you like and compromise what you BOTH want to sustain a healthy sex life.
If you want to have the best sex of your life, easiest way is to communicate. It’s that’s simple, don’t be shy ask for what you want, tell your partner what turns you off, if you don’t speak up you’ll never get the best experience.
