We’ve all heard of changing up your position in bed. But what about for other things like the hand job? If you find you are always performing a hand job the same way there are almost as many ways to switch things up as there are different sex positions. Here are just a few to get you started.

Standard with a Twist

If you want to start off with slow changes to get your man used to the idea of breaking from the traditional hand job then this is your best option. Start off as you usually would, make sure your pinky is on the side of his penis with his balls and your index finger is towards the head. While stroking up and down in the traditional manner rub your thumb off the back and head of his penis twisting it around. Keep your hand moving as it usually would the only difference will be your thumb, make sure to circle not only the tip but also around the rim of his head. If you have a hard time mastering this one handed try using one hand to stimulate just the tip while the other continues stroking his shaft.

The Trade-Off

If you find one of your arms is always tired after a hand job this may be a great way to break up some of that strain. For this technique, you will start with one hand at the top and stroke him all the way from the top to the base. Once that hand reaches the base removed it while simultaneously starting again at the top with the other hand. As soon as one hand reaches the bottom the other should be starting at the top. Trading off in this manner will keep his penis feeling constant sensations from your hands.

Added Anal

For this technique, it’s your turn to have your man get on all fours. Position yourself behind him reaching between his legs to give him his handjob. In this position, you will easily have access to orally pleasuring his balls and perineum. Then you can move to anilingus. You may want to confirm you partner is open to trying this before beginning and that they have performed some basic hygiene before you start.