Are you ready to explore a world of intense and euphoric pleasure? Whether you are the fister, the fistee, or both.. You are in for a real treat and we will tell you how to get the most out of your fisting experience!
If you’re picturing someone vagina-punching their closed fist in-and-out, you’ve got it all wrong.
Fisting is actually one partner entering each finger individually until all five fingers have slid into either love tunnel.
When done properly, fisting provides an intensely pleasurable feeling of vaginal, or rectal fullness and stimulation.
Safety First when Fisting
As with all extreme sexual activities there are a few do’s and don’ts to make sure you and your partner don’t end up in an awkward explanation situation with an MD.
Before the play action begins to make sure to trim your fingernails, an added bonus for wearing latex gloves to avoid infections.
Fisting requires significant lubrication, so its important to keep in mind that if you are using latex gloves you need to be using an oil based lubricant.
Let your fist be pulled in naturally and never try to fit your whole hand in at once, remember rushing is bad and can end the entire experience, all good things come with time.
Fisting Requires Warm-Up
When you are ready to give fisting a try make sure you take a trip to the bathroom and empty your bowels and bladder before you start! It is also a good idea to flush any possible bacteria with a gentle douche for additional cleanliness.
Start things off with some non-penetrative genital or anal stimulation to get that blood pumping to the right area this is a great time to apply your lubricant around the anus or vagina.
Once the surrounding area is sufficiently lubed and aroused add some extra lube and insert two fingers into the anus or vagina in a V shape, massaging internally to relax those muscles. Once your partner is fully relaxed, you can start thinking about moving on to the next level.
You’re Ready For Stage 2 Fisting
Once you’ve completed the warm-up and are feeling relaxed and ready, you can move on. It is crucial that you apply plenty of additional lubricant to the anus or vagina, and the hand, to ensure maximum pleasure with minimum discomfort.
If you’re worried about a mess lay down a sheet or soft towel to catch any excess lube that may drip. The first time the receiver should try laying on his or her back with legs comfortably spread to ensure comfort remains from the start.
Each finger should be inserted one by one to form a closed duck bill. The fingers are positioned tightly together and straight, the thumb is folded over in the palm.
Once you and your partner are ready to move the fist in a little deeper- Make sure your receiver is not feeling any pain. A little discomfort the first time is normal while the body gets used to being stretched but severe pain means it’s time to stop.
After the knuckles enter into the anal or vaginal cavity the rest of the hand will naturally pull in and the fist will curl. You’ve done it! Take a moment to both gets used to the sensation.
It’s Play Time
You have successfully moved from fingering to fisting, so enjoy it! Experiment with rotating your fist to see what feels best for you both. Try flexing the fingers and thumb. Sometimes no movement is even necessary to push your partner over the edge, just the sensation of being completely filled is enough all on its own to produce an intense orgasm. When you’re ready to move on to other sexual activities simply return your hand to the closed duckbill and let your partner flex their muscles lightly to help you glide out with ease.
