Foreplay isn’t just for the ladies. There are many ways to get his motor running too. So if you are looking for some tips to get you both lubed up before your marathon we have some suggestions straight from the guys, that will ensure he is turned on.

Dance for him

You don’t have to be a professional pole dancer to give a good lap dance or striptease to some sexy music. “When she wants to remind me of how sexy she is, she makes sure I see her undress. After raising her skirt above her thighs, she removes her stockings, running her hands along her calves as she pulls them down. Then she slowly unbuttons her blouse, giving me sexy looks between each button. Finally, she undoes her bra and cups her breasts as the straps fall off her shoulders. It makes me nuts.”

Subtle Seduction

Not all touching has to be hot and heavy. Light feather touches that may go unnoticed at first are a great way to pique his curiosity. Try playing footsy under the table while you are out for dinner. Gently glide your heels or even stocking-ed foot up his leg to suggest what other body parts intend to do later. Brushing your breasts against his arm or back while you walk around in public is another way to get his motor and imagination running. “We were at a museum for a black-tie event and I was feeling sharp with my wife on my arm. As we looked at a painting, she subtly brushed one of her breasts against my arm. At the next painting, she did it again — and yet again when we were in front of a sculpture. At this point we were both suppressing giggles because the well-heeled crowd was clueless about our devious behavior, which made her sneaky seduction even hotter. Finally, we ducked into an empty gallery room for a quick kiss, then took the shortest route possible to get our coats.”

Slow build

You can spend all day building up sexual tension. Send dirty texts. Drop subtle sexy hints. Slowly undress little by little everytime you leave the room, come back wearing one item less, or change entirely into something sexy to do your regular routines in. Breathy kisses while you run your hands through their hair every time you pass by them. These are all great ways to let them know you’re in the mood for some play once you’re done with all your necessary tasks for the day. “I’m always a fan of what’s essentially a really long tease throughout the day — like text messages and stuff that you get to dwell on until you see them.”