Really good really rough sex can leave its mark on you, in more way than one. If you find yourself dealing with scratches and bruises on the regular and need a bit more help than what’s in our treating sex injuries article then we are here to help. If you want to conceal the marks left being from whatever kind of consensual sex gets your rocks off we have some advice for healing and hiding them. Remember if you play rough that aftercare is just as important as foreplay.

Hiding Them

If you are just looking to hide the marks for a function or perhaps to avoid work place awkward moments then Arnica supplements or salve is a life saver! Its homeopathic doses are used for blood clots, swelling, and pain.  There are also numerous body makeups that will help neutralize the visible marks. MAC makes a great one if you’re in a pinch!

Removing stuck objects

It’s actually very common for things to get stuck in unwanted places. Try waiting for about 10-15 minutes after things have calmed down to allow your muscles to relax and things to return to normal size then you can try fishing it out yourself. Take a mirror to help you locate the lost object and try to relax so your muscles don’t tense up making it harder to retrieve it. Try to insert two fingers, feel around for the culprit, and gently it out. If you still can’t, then call your doctor and they’ll be able to retrieve it for you.

Cuts and Puncture Wounds

If you find a cut whether intentional or unintentional (sometimes the cuffs can be just a bit too tight) Apply firm pressure directly to the wound, ideally using a clean cloth or towel. You can also use your fingers if nothing else is available. If the blood seeps through the cloth or towel, add more pressure. Stop applying pressure when the bleeding stops, this usually takes five to ten minutes. Once the bleeding has subsided rinse the wound with clear water. Remove any foreign material in the wound such as dirt, gravel or glass) by using tweezers if necessary. Ideally, clean the wound with a sterile gauze. Avoid using cotton wool. If the bleeding restarts, reapply pressure.

Burns

Wax can hurt if you grab the wrong candle in the heat of the moment. The most important thing to do for a burn is first to identify the severity of the burn. First-degree burns are red and painful. They swell a little. They turn white when you press on the skin. The skin over the burn may peel off after 1 or 2 days. Second-degree burns are thicker burns, are very painful and typically produce blisters on the skin. The skin is very red or splotchy and may be very swollen. Third-degree burns cause damage to all layers of the skin. The burned skin looks white or charred. These burns may cause little or no pain because the nerves and tissue in the skin are damaged. SEE A DOCTOR IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE THIRD DEGREE BURNS! You will want to soak the burn in cool water for at least 5 minutes up to 30 minutes. Then treat the burn with a product that protects and heals the skin. After you have applied a cream or ointment cover the burn with a dry nonstick dressing like tefla. If you’re burning is above a 1st degree burn you should see a doctor for follow up.