Every woman is different. They all have different turn-ons and turn offs.
However these 4 things are almost always agreed upon across the board as turn offs. So just avoid these 4 things, and hopefully you wont strike out before you even get to swing.
Boring
Conversation is important. If the conversation is dull she will think you are dull. That doesn’t mean prepare note cards or fill every second of quiet with talking. Just have a few go to conversation topics in your back pocket incase there is a lull. Things like places you’ve traveled, family, and personal interests. You should leave political and hot topic debates until you’ve gotten to know each other better.
Insecurity
Even if you are insecure, a little confidence can go a long way. No woman is looking to take your mother’s place reassuring you that you’re good enough for her, or what she see’s in a guy like you. Insecurity also leads to unnecessary jealousy, which all women find very unsexy.
Temper
There is a big difference between a bad boy, and a boy with a bad temper. Bar fights are not sexy, and if you get your ass kicked its even less sexy. It doesn’t necessarily have to be to that extreme either. Women will pay attention to smaller things like how you treat your waiter and respond to things not being perfect. Do your best to keep your hot head cool so you don’t end up in a cold shower.
Arrogance
If you find yourself bragging just to convince her you’re a catch, she will definitely call your bluff. There’s nothing more unattractive than a self centered selfish guy. If all you can think about is yourself now, then that’s all she’ll think you’ll care about down the road too. She needs to know that when things get serious, her needs and desires come first. Show her that, and you’ll make sure you’ll be coming later!
