Let’s talk about dirty talking is it a turn on? Turn off? One in five people have said they literally stop dead in their tracks if someone talks dirty to them. But 90% of people say they get turned on by dirty talking, however there are definitely dos and don’ts of dirty talking.
Did you know our most powerful sex organ is our brain? research has shown that the easiest way to stimulate our sex organs is through our brain. If you can get turned on by just talking, imagine what the sex will be like?
One thing you should not ever do, is start dirty talking aggressively, if you get too intimate to quick that will turn anyone off, ease into it or you’ll get a dry out quick. Be flirty, start with light touching, compliment their performance, tell them what you want, easing into dirty talk will get the juices flowing.
Dirty talking and moaning is a love language in itself, double the steaks and they will be puddy in your hands. Moaning is a sign of enjoyment, so if you’re whispering sexy nothings in her ear, paired with a “I want to be inside of you” or for the ladies “I want you inside of me” as examples, you’re in for a great night.
The biggest turn off to a partner is remaining silent, it’s awkward, it’s not sexy, and will kill the mood fast. Bottom line, everyone gets turned on by dirty talk, even people who are to shy to say they want it, talk to your partner get them comfortable with it, make sure they are feeling good with it, and ease into it.
