While absence may make the heart grow fonder, it can sure make the rest of your body lonely. Whether you and your partner live hundred’s or thousands of miles apart, one or both of you travel for work, or maybe they are stationed overseas, having a sexually satisfying monogamous relationship when your lover is beyond your reach presents some challenges.
One way to keep that relationship hot is to utilize todays technology, more specifically, web chat! It may seem so obvious to some, but there’s nothing better when your missing someone than to be able to see their face (or other parts of them). Web chat not only allows you to see your partner, but you can get your freak on as well. There are even toys on the market designed with your exact situation in mind. A little mutual masturbation can go along way when your partners touch is out of reach.
Sexy web cams may seem a little too racy for some, but don’t worry if your a little on the shy side. Try filming a short clip of you pleasuring yourself in the dark and sending it to your lover. The sexy sounds and ambiguous picture will help to build anticipation and keep them sexually enticed.
Make sure to keep phone conversations for intimate sessions. Handle mundane tasks and updates through text or email. When you hear each others voice you want to make it special, not bogged down by trivial matter.
Try changing things up and writing a sexy note, or sending a steamy post card. Remember, your only limitation is your own imagination. Having something tangible is a bit more intimate than a text, you can even take this a step further and send them an article of clothing or pillow etc. of yours to help make them feel closer to you.
