Sexting is a great way to stay connected to your partner even when you must be apart. However, there are some draw backs, like getting in the mood when its just you. This week we have some super simple suggestions to help you get in the mood when you are getting it on virtually.
Dress like you’re about to have sex
Sometimes it’s hard to feel turned on when you’re lying in your sweatpants after just having eaten your Doordash on the couch. You may want to try getting yourself in the mood by taking the time and getting ready for sexing the same way you would get ready for a date. Take a shower and put on something that makes you feel super sexy.
Set the mood for yourself
Just because you’re the only one that will see your space, doesn’t mean your space doesn’t matter. Dim your lights, put on some mood music, all the things you would do if your sexting partner was there in person. Your mind associates these things with sex and will take the ques. You should also take the time to shut off notifications for your other apps, that way your best friends MLM party invitation doesn’t pop up right as you’re about to blow.
Don’t forget foreplay
Do not go from a “hey sexy you busy?” to “I want to tie you up and swallow every last drop of you.” That will do a disservice to you both. Quickies are great, but sexting isn’t really the place for them. Take your time arousing yourself and your partner the way you would during regular sex. What would you do in person? Talk to your partner about that instead of jumping right into hardcore porn star sext messages.
We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!
