Just because its called sext messaging doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s always done over a text. We have some tips for your sexting sessions no matter if you are emailing, Facebooking, snapchatting or texting.
Start slow
You may be eager to start sending your partner all kinds of dirty text messages, but first test the waters with some tame messages to see if they are into it. If it’s clear that they are, then you can proceed to send raunchier messages. If you start off by sending a message that’s really out there, then you risk them getting freaked out by it and shutting down.
Mix things up
You don’t want to be too predictable. Remember that switching it up keeps things interesting. Even if you’re already in a relationship, you don’t need to always send only dirty messages. In fact, it can get a bit boring if it is all raunch all the time. So, make sure to mix it up with messages that are flirtier or even more romantic to keep things from being so one note.
Keep it authentic
Be yourself when you send a sext message. You want to be dirty, but you want to do it in a way that suits you. You can swap “cock” for “penis” or “pussy” for “vagina” if you don’t normally use slang. If you don’t enjoy super explicit things, then keep it lighter stick to foreplay or use phrases that turn you on, not that you cringe to send. A little euphemism or innuendo works just fine leaving a little to their imagination will often work in your favor.
Some messaging apps have a “black box” or private conversation feature that help to ensure that no one but you and your partner see the messages or pictures, check to see if yours does and enable it if so. We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!
