It’s Monday and you know what that means? Time to pause on hunting the weekends hottest meme’s and make sure your texting game is on point. Sexting can be an incredible way to enhance sexual communication and intimacy with your partner. Sexting in and of itself is a great form of foreplay. So this week we have some tips to make sure your foreplay goes off without a hitch.
Check your Surroundings
You wouldn’t just go to pound town in the middle of downtown, the same thoughts should convey to your sexting sessions. Before you send anything feel it out with your partner, so they don’t accidentally open your sext during a work meeting and find themselves with an uncomfortable impossible to hide boner. When you begin, start with a sext that’s not necessarily NSFW and see how they respond.
Stay in your Comfort Zone
Go with what you know. While sexting can be a great way to touch on things you’d like to try, its safest to stick to what you’re comfortable with for the main event. even though you’re going out of your way to tell your partner how hot you’re feeling and what you’d like to do to each other branching out into situations you’ve never experienced can cause some problems. In other words, if you’ve never done BDSM before, don’t try to become a virtual dominatrix overnight. Add in some light bondage but keep the descriptions to activities you’re both well versed in. If you’re feeling uncomfortable or embarrassed about what you’re writing, switch back to things you’d happily say to your partner in the bedroom.
Remember it’s the Appetizer not the Main Course
Build sexual tension, it’s not only okay, but encouraged, to be a tease when sexting. Throughout the day, text your partner what you want to do to them, or what you want them to do to you. Sexts are meant to ignite something in your partner, but remember, they can’t see you. Regardless of how turned on you might feel, you need to spell it out for them. Plus, positive reinforcement can be just the encouragement your sexting partner needs to keep the sexts coming.
We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting.
