Mondays are all about mastering the art of sexting. This week we  have a few new tips to help take your sexting sessions to the next level.

Short and Simple

You are not entering a short story contest. So, remember when sexting less is more. Leave some things up to your partners imagination. Even better if you write ambiguous sexts that leave many response options so your conversation will flow well.

Confidence is Key

Don’t second guess yourself when sexting. Go for it and do it with confidence. Shy and coy are great, but unsure is just not sexy. So make sure you stay on topics you know you are good with until you are ready to navigate into new things you may not be well versed in.

Leave them Longing

If you are in a new sexting relationship knowing when to end the sexting session is important. Don’t keep forcing it to continue when it’s starting to die out. You want to end it while things are still hot, so your partner stays intrigued and wanting more.

Flattery will get you Everywhere

Flattery and flirting go hand in hand. As long as you make sure to keep the compliments genuine and not over do them they can add an extra touch of emotion to sexting that can prevent the detachment sex over technology sometimes accumulates.

Be true to You

Don’t build yourself up to be something that you aren’t. If you are not a super affectionate person, don’t sext like one. If you prefer to let your partner be the assertive one don’t be overly dominate in your sexts. Time and time again people have ventured into some of the kinkier sides of sexting, however they would type out scenarios they would never want to try in person. Remember that sexting is a form of foreplay and building up a sexual situation with a partner may make them want to try it. So just be yourself, type out what you would enjoy in person.

Sexts don’t have to be particularly dirty to be a turn on, just be yourself and have fun! We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting.