Varity is the spice of life, and we would not want to deprive you of any flavors. So, for this weeks master sexting Monday series we have some tried and true tips and advice from pro sexters.
Consent is Key
“I always suggest asking if they’re down for sexting. It’s 2021. Be straightforward. If it’s getting dirty just say, ‘Are you OK with sexting?’ If this person is into it, you’ll know. I appreciate honesty.” —Tim, 29.
“I am into some more scene style sexting, so I like to ask if they have any hard limits, and what their safe word is before we get deep into any kind of sext messaging.” —Sherry, 40
Be Authentic
“I’m a raunchy sexter myself so if he isn’t into that, I don’t think we’re a good match. I’d like to know right away what the deal is.” —Anna, 30.
“Once a girl sexted me after everyone else was asleep at a girls’ night, and really got off on doing that while her friends were all asleep around her. I thought it was hot that she was into sex around other people.” —Anonymous
Start off Slow
“If the conversation naturally gets sexy and I’m into it, I’ll let you know. Before getting sexual, test the waters out first. You could send something like, ‘I’ve been thinking about you all day,’ and see what the response is. If they say, ‘Oh yeah? What were you thinking about?’ [or something similar], you could say, ‘I’ve been thinking about kissing you.’ That’s kind of sexy, but not too aggressive.” —Brooke, 30.
“I think of sext texts as foreplay so the more descriptive the build up is the more turned on I get. I like to be ready to pin her to the wall as soon as I walk in the door after a good text round.” —Chris, 32
We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!
