Every Monday we provide tips tricks and scrips to help you master the art of sexting. But you don’t want to send the wrong message. Sexting can go from a turn on to a turn off quickly. So for this week’s master sexting series we have some tips to make sure you aren’t turning them off with your sexts.

Don’t over Sext

You want to let them know that you are into them, but you don’t want to come off as a stalker who floods their phone with hundreds of sexts every day. Everyone has a life, work to do, responsibilities to attend to, chores to finish, and personal things to worry about. Constantly sexting them, may appear exciting to begin with, but could quickly become a huge turn-off. Make sure you’re checking in on their day-to-day life to be sure they aren’t stressed out or overwhelmed before sexting. Keep in mind quantity of sexts isn’t as important as the quality.

No Nagging or Pouting

Imagine how bothersome it would be for people to break out of a shift only to see several messages, including a couple of sexts then some whining for a response? Your dirty texts would be totally forgotten, you may get a text back apologizing for not being able to text back sooner, but you won’t be getting sexy texts back. Expecting immediate responses to your sexy texts makes you appear clingy or overly sexually aggressive. Let them respond on their time.

Don’t forget to flirt

It’s easy to get caught up in a good sexting partner and forget that they are still a person who has feelings. Sometimes it’s important to not only check in on them but to also keep things lighter. Sexts can create sexual tension, but if it’s the only conversation you’re having your partner will probably get bored pretty quickly. Make sure you’re stimulating them in more ways than just sexy texts.

We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!