Whether it’s a one night stand, or your long term lover, changing sexual positions can be tricky. Typically women are used the letting the man take the lead, from missionary to doggysyle, most sexual positions are male driven. Taking charge and riding cowgirl is all about confidence and attitude, not to mention knowing what to do once you’re up there. There’s a lot more to it than just sitting on top of him. So if you’ve ever been curious about whether or not you have what it takes to take charge and ride him like a bucking bronco, you’ve come to the right place. Here are a few sexy tips that will make giddying up far more enjoyable for both of you, and have your stud laying back in pure ecstasy.
The first step to riding your man like a pro is being able to take charge. This isn’t just in the moves, but it’s an attitude. A good place to start is pinning him down. Grab his wrists, and choose a spot most comfortable for you both. Pining him above his head is a great place to start, and it can quickly establish your dominance. However, you can also try pinning his arms out to the sides, or even pinned to his chest.
If pinning his hands isn’t quite for you, don’t worry, it’s not the end of the world. Sometimes a height difference can make that less realistic, and it can even be a little strenuous trying to hold him down if he’s not particularly submissive and enjoys a more active role with his hands. Another trick to try is resting your hands on his chest, this will help you keep balance as well allow you a way to tantalize him with your fingers grazing and scratching at his bare chest. Don’t shy away, pain is pleasure, so if he’s into it, dig those nails in and give him a nice jolt.
If you feel up to it, talking dirty is always a quick way to turn him on. Don’t try too hard to sound like an adult film star, just do what comes naturally. Lean into his ear with a hushed sultry voice, and really build the tension. Not sure what to say? Check out some of our other blogs on that exact subject.
Touch yourself! Your boobs are a perfect place to start. Grab them, cup them, and play with your nipples. You get the idea. Touching hour breasts while you’re bouncing and rocking back and forth is a great way to show him just how turned on he makes you. Once you’re hands are roaming, don’t stop at your breasts. Work your way down your body and pay your clit some much needed attention. Not only will it blow his mind to watch you, but it’ll help you reach the big o!
Try tilting your head back, looking towards the ceiling and moaning. A LOT! Believe me, this will give him the encouragement that he’s really turning you on and doing you right. Don’t tilt too far though, you don’t want to experience vertigo and bring things to a screeching halt. Laying forward is also a sexy treat. Chest to chest initiates full body contact, and he’ll really enjoy the feel of your nipples brushing his chest as you bounce. If you’re into teasing him, lean forward just enough to place your boobs in his mouth. Both of you will find this a good way to speed up your orgasm.
Don’t be afraid to turn things around, literally. Reverse cowgirl is a wonderful treat for a man who loves your sexy ass. After all, changing perspective is always fun. Whichever way you decide to face, a nice treat is to slow things down. There’s no need to constantly be bouncing around, and slowing the pace increases intimacy and sensuality.
