The main difference between traditional massage and sexual massage is, sexual arousal. But how to you relax the entire body working out it’s kinks, while also turning things kinky. If you really want to know how to give an out-of-this-world massage, you can start by using the following erotic massage techniques.
Set the mood
Trust us, in the case of an erotic massage the mood is important! The room should be free of distraction and a comfortable temperature. If you opt for candles or music, make sure that they enhance but don’t distract or detract from your massage. Speaking of candles, hot massage candles can be great for a little bit of sexy wax play. Wax or oil are integral to a next level massage. It keeps your disrobed subject warm and reduces friction as you work. Again, if you use scented massage oil, opt for something subtle and not overly cloying and make sure to warm it up by letting it sit in a bowl of warm water.
Get things Started
To begin working on their back and shoulders, sit on their ass so that their pelvis will be pressed into the mattress every time you lean in to really work out those knots. To keep things even more erotic as you lean over their back and shoulders while you work, try grazing their skin with your nipples and breath, then easing off a bit and doing it again.
Massage Techniques
Stripping/Compression – laying one hand flat on a part of your partner’s body and then pressing your other hand on top of it to apply pressure to the muscles.
Fanning – laying both hands flat with your fingers together and slowly moving across a muscle by alternating circular sweeping motions with each hand. To add additional pressure, try folding your fingers in at the knuckles.
Stroking – keeping your fingers together with thumbs parallel making long, gentle movements while alternating levels of pressure.
Kneading – using your palms and wrists to massage muscles deeply in small semi-circles. This is best for fleshier areas like biceps, thighs and that ass.
The Transition
Try to spend 5-10 minutes on each area, feeling out where your partner’s muscles seem tense adjusting pressure and changing up stroke technique as necessary. Make sure as you transition to different parts of the body that each stroke flows seamlessly into the next to prevent your subject from tensing up thinking. Once your partner is basically putty in your hands, gently urge them to turn onto their back. Make sure to add extra oil if necessary. Sit straddling them again and gently run your hands over their arms and the front of their body, occasionally straying to graze their nipples and pubic bone or penis from time to time. Finally, gently begin to run your hands over their pubic bone or penis, then gently do the same with their vulva or testicles. Switch it up by massaging other parts of their body then returning teasing them until they are ready to take the massage to deeper levels.
