When it comes to orgasms men definitely have the market cornered, but it’s not as hard as you think to make sure your lady achieves climax as well. The way I see it, the more the merrier, so if you’re going to pleasure your woman, why not make it a multiple orgasm experience? You will find that not every woman desires multiple orgasms, and instead prefers one big O, but there’s no way to know unless you try. So here are a few tips to help you help your woman achieve the ever elusive multiple orgasm, and claim your spot upon the throne of sexual gods! That’s right boys, you give her an experience like this, and she’ll definitely repay you in a way fit for a king!
First off, set the mood! Stress is a huge inhibitor of sexual pleasure, so make sure she’s comfortable and feels sexy. Let her know how much you desire her, and how you can’t wait to pleasure her. Show her that chivalry isn’t dead.
Take a step back from your instant gratification, and focus on her’s. It’s no secret that women take longer to become aroused and orgasm than men do, so don’t worry, you’ll get your’s, just let her get there first. This means foreplay, and I’m not just talking the typical five minute check in on her body to then jump to intercourse. Take your time and make sure she knows you’re happy to pleasure her for as long as she needs.
When it comes to multiple orgasms, thinking outside the box is key! I really mean that, the outside of her box is where most of her pleasure is felt, as the vaginal canal is much less sensitive than her clitoris.
That doesn’t mean that you don’t need to take the insides into consideration! It is crucial that she feel more pleasure than pain in order to climax at all, let alone multiple times. To prevent her from being rubbed raw, use her favorite lube.
Her first orgasm can often be intense and she may need a moment to recover. This does not mean you should take a bathroom break. Continue to stimulate her senses while laying off of the heavy vaginal stimulation. Kisses and gentle caresses are great for keeping her aroused while giving her sensitive areas a moment to recuperate.
Don’t forget to alternate between the g-spot and the clitoris, unless she’s told you she doesn’t like one or the other, both areas will give her completely different waves of pleasure. Vary the pressure and intensity of your touch in each area, keep her body guessing, but pay attention to what works and what doesn’t.
If you take your time, and focus on her in all the right areas, there’s no way you won’t make her cum. If you make sure to keep her engaged and put in the work, you’ll have her well on her way to multiple orgasms in no time. Don’t feel too left out boys, keep an eye out for our blog on how to achieve the male multiple orgasm. Yes, it DOES exist!
