Most women fall into a routine when it comes to flicking the bean. Once they find something that works they stick with it. However, if you’re up for broadening your horizons these tips will take your self-pleasure sessions to the next level.

Intensify your Arousal

Just like with sex setting the mood is important for the end results. Stress can also be a big mood killer. So schedule yourself some alone time in a stress free setting, perhaps a bubble bath with candles. Build yourself up before trying to build up to the big-o. Foreplay is just as important during solo play as it is with a partner.

Shake things up

Variety is the spice of life. It’s also what keeps sex desirable and fulfilling. Try not to skip right to what you know will take you over the edge. If you prefer side to side strokes, try some horizontal ones before you focus on what will actually bring you to climax. Try different pressures and directional strokes over your clitoris building up your own sexual tension before you allow yourself release.

Upgrade your stash

We’ve mentioned how important lube is before when it comes to some partner action, but it is just as important during your solo sessions. If you prefer finger play then a silicone base lube is perfect for you. They are super silky and slippery and will help keep things from getting rub burn. However, if you prefer toys during your play time make sure you’re choosing a water based lube to avoid damage. While you’re shopping around consider upgrading or branching out your toy collection as well. If you’ve never tried a vibrator it’s time to invest in one! Especially if you are someone who needs clitoral stimulation during masturbation.

Don’t be afraid to try new things, especially when you are the only one who will know. You never know what you might like until you try it! Hopefully, these masturbation tips will help keep you from falling into a solo sex rut.