Men’s Major Turn Offs

Have you ever met a guy and hit it off, and then he never shows any interest ever again? You’re left in this limbo area where you just can’t figure out what went wrong. Well ladies, here’s a little insight into the crazy inner workings of a man’s brain. I know you work hard to keep yourself attractive and do whatever you can to get the attention of the man you like, so here are a few things to avoid doing, because he may not say it, but these things are some surefire turn offs that will make him lose his interest.

We all love a good ladies night out, and we’ve all had one of those nights when we’ve tossed back a few more than we should have. But one foolproof way to shoot a man’s horse down is to be belligerently drunk. Seriously though ladies, who wants to see a grown ass woman sprawled out on the floor puking her guts out? No guy will want to go to first base with her, let alone hit a home run. Not to mention watching her walk like a new born baby calf barely staying vertical as she makes her way down the street. It’s fine to throw a few back and have fun, but remember that wasted women are terribly unattractive.Obnoxiously loud women are another huge turn off for men. Guys like their solitude and personal time to watch the game or focus on whatever it is they like to do. There’s nothing like a woman screaming his ear off on the phone or in person that will make him want to jump ship faster. Give your guy a break and let him have some alone time; believe me, there will be plenty of time to yell at him when he’s done something wrong, which he will. If there’s no need to yell, tone it down a few notches.Negativity is a very unattractive trait on anyone, but men find it especially annoying when their ladies continually talk smack and hate on everything. Drama is not something men tend to gravitate to, so keep it simple, and look on the bright side of things. Men are basically big children; they need a positive influence in their corner to feel confident and secure.Lying is another great way to turn a guy off. I’m not talking about the little white lies that aren’t going to make or break anything, I’m talking about those big lies that we get caught telling but continue to deny no matter what. Keep thing as honest as possible; you want the same from him, don’t you?Being a Miss Know-It-All should probably have gone higher on this list, because if there’s one thing a guy hates, it’s his girl acting like she’s always right no matter what. Men find this extremely irritating, so please ladies, take a second to not just hear what your man is saying, but really listen and think about it. Just because we think we are right, doesn’t mean we should shove it down their throats and ignore their point of view.

Keep away from dong a few of these things, and I’m sure you’ll find yourself in a happier and healthier relationship. Guys are pretty simple creatures, and as women we have to remember that. Cut them some slack, and lay off the irrational, irritating behavior.