We’ve all heard the same old New Year resolutions time and time again, “I’m going lose weight,” “I’m going to save more money,” etc. Almost no one every successfully keeps their resolutions, so how about mixing it up this year with some that you will actually WANT to stick to?
Be Inquisitive
After a certain point in a relationship you may slip into auto pilot mode whether you mean to or not. Especially once you’re married. Try asking if your partner is still enjoying the same thing you’ve been doing for the last decade. Maybe there are some new positions they want to try, or something that just doesn’t do it for them anymore. Or check out some new things to try on your own and surprise them.
Be Playful
Christmas is coming up, add some naughty toys to your list! Don’t be intimidated by adding accessories to your sex life, they can enhance the experience not only for the ladies but for the men as well.
Be the Giver not the Taker
Whether it’s hot and steamy foreplay, oral, or the full on sexcapade, try pleasing just your partner for a change. Take your time, and enjoy watching how their bodies react to your touch. You’ll be surprised how much you can learn about your partner, and how much enjoyment you’ll get out of watching them writhe in pleasure.
Be more Daring
Try new things whether it’s new positions, new locations, new fantasies, or just a new outfit. Take some risks the rewards will be worth it. If talking to your partner about what your fantasies might be seems a little too exposed, try writing a few down and reading them to each other. It’s an extremely vulnerable but intimately rewarding experience, and we bet you’ll come out of it with a few new ideas to try.
