You may not believe it, but it’s entirely possible for a woman to have an orgasm from nipple stimulation. *Gasp!* That’s right folks, all that time you spend fondling your lady’s glorious globes could actually amount to more than her being annoyed. Annoyed, you ask? Sure! If your lady is anything like me and my big breasted girlfriends, she can attest to the fact that you blindly grabbing and groping her chest every chance you get is NOT a turn on—it’s annoying! But there’s hope for you, yet! While I can’t guarantee that your absentminded boob grab as you pass her in the hallway will suddenly begin to turn her on, I can assure you that if you focus on her sweet little nipples during sexy time, she’s likely to get off just from that! Hey, don’t get it twisted; you’ll still need to put in the time elsewhere, if you know what I mean…
Let’s get scientific for a moment, shall we? A study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2011 indicates that when a woman’s lover plays with her nipples, the same region of the brain will be stimulated as when her clitoral, vaginal, or cervical area is stimulated. Here is an excerpt from the study, in case you’re sitting there doubting me:
Female participants were asked to lie inside an fMRI machine and alternate between stimulating the clitoris, vagina, cervix and nipple. An experimenter instructed the women to “comfortably” stimulate one of those body parts for 30 seconds, then to rest for 30 seconds before repeating the process with a different part of the body. All participants were asked to stimulate themselves in the exact same way to keep the results as constant as possible (e.g., when it came to nipple stimulation, women were asked to use their right hand to “tap the left nipple rhythmically.”)
The researchers discovered that stimulation of the nipple activated an area of the brain known as the genital sensory cortex. Meaning women’s brains seem to process nipple and genital stimulation in the same way. In light of this, it is not at all surprising that many women are aroused by having their nipples touched and that, for some, this may be enough to lead to orgasm.
So what does all this mean for your scheduled adult play date tonight? It means that instead of only getting off once (and that’s always a maybe, isn’t it ladies?), your lady could potentially experience multiple orgasms. Look guys, you need to know the importance of foreplay, seriously. I know you think that means kissing and groping for a few minutes before spitting on her precious petal so you can slide it in quickly, but I promise, you’re dead wrong. Quickies are great, but if you’re resorting to lube or spit every time just to get inside, you’re not spending enough time on foreplay.
Foreplay can be just as fulfilling and exciting as the “real deal,” so let’s talk about that for a minute, OK? Every woman is different and experiences pleasure differently, so I can’t tell you that softly touching her nipples will work. Likewise, I won’t tell you that you should apply nipple clamps or bite them! But I can tell you that you can, and definitely should, ask your lady what she likes. Cup her breasts, tease her nipples until they’re standing at attention, and then start asking questions. I’m not suggesting you pull out a questionnaire! But talk to her, for god’s sake! For example, sometimes I want my nipples touched softly, and other times I crave a good hard pinch, and you can bet your sweet ass I let my guy know which I’m in the mood for! But you can’t possibly know unless you ask her, right? It’s not rocket science, it’s sex; and one key to good sex is communication.
So you’re lying in bed (or in the car, or movie theatre, or wherever you two decide to get down with the get down) and you’re making out hot n’ heavy. Now what? If you’re truly interested in her pleasure, spend a lot of time kissing and sucking her breasts and nipples. Ask her if she wants it done softly or if she’d like a little teeth action. If she’s shy and can’t vocalize her needs, then it’s your job to listen to her body. Believe me, when you’re doing the right thing, you’ll know it! Her breasts will swell, her nipples will harden, her breathing will quicken, and SURPRISE!, her pussy will get like, crazy wet! No more spit or lube for you! It’s smooth sailing from there, I promise.
The moral of the story is that you have to spend some quality time making sure she’s being pleasured properly. And now you’ve got a whole new region of her body to focus your attention on! Not that you weren’t spending all your time obsessing over her love pillows before, but now you’re in the know about the possibility of her having an awesome orgasm just from playing with her nipples! This is a win-win situation, people! So before you do the deed, dip the tip, or take a ride on the slip and slide, pay special attention to the twins and then revel in her afterglow with a smirk of satisfaction for a job well done!
