Women everywhere will agree. Oral sex can be amazing! However, there are some things that aren’t entirely necessary. So, we asked women to tell us what they don’t love about the way their partners preform oral for them.
Diving right in
Just because oral is foreplay, doesn’t mean it doesn’t require a little foreplay of its own. Don’t start off by sticking your tongue inside her vagina. Women are not looking for your tongue to replace your penis. Take your time to wander around the vulva and vagina, there are tons of nerve endings enjoy the exploration, just don’t get lost, that is next on our list.
Don’t attack or avoid the clit
Teasing is great when it comes to oral sex, however avoiding the clit all together is maddening and can detract from the experience. One of the women we asked said “If he avoids my clit all together without even brushing over it to show he is avoiding it on purpose I automatically assume he doesn’t know what he’s doing and am ready to move onto the next thing.” Tease it toy with it but don’t attack it. Clitoral stimulation is intense if all your focus is only on the clit you can over stimulate it and it can shift from pleasurable to painful.
Not listening
“Nothing is sexier than a guy who asks what I like, but if he doesn’t listen when I answer he’s a one and done.” It’s great to know what women want, however its even better if you make sure she likes what you’re doing. Don’t be afraid to ask, just while you’re doing it. It’s good to listen while you’re acting as well. For example, “Don’t stop” does not mean, speed up and go harder because you think that will help. It means keep doing exactly what you are doing because it is fabulous.
Most all of them agreed however that even if you weren’t getting it right being happy to try and practice is enough for them to be happy.
