Phone sex is great for couples who are long distance, and for those who like to build up the sexual tension before they see each other. However sometimes it’s a bit difficult to find time alone to have phone sex. That is when sexting can be a lifesaver. If you love being naughty over the phone, but aren’t quite sure how to turn the dirty talk into texts to start sexting we have some tips for you!
Sexy Questions
If starting a sext conversation seems a bit forward for you asking these questions will get your guy thinking in the right direction. The most important thing to remember with these is to ask questions you already know the answer to so that you can lead the conversation in the right direction. If you are shy you can start with some of the more subtle questions and then get more and more sensual as you go.
- Which kind of outfit looks best on me?
- What are you wearing right now?
- How long would it take for you to get here?
- If we were together right now, what would you do to me?
- Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
- Do you like to talk dirty?
- What’s your favorite part of my body?
- What’s your idea of good foreplay?
- Do you ever get horny while texting me?
Subtle but Sexy texts
It’s important to keep in mind when sexting that the buildup is important. Since you aren’t in person to have any physical foreplay you need to work at getting your partner turned on. Jumping right into overtly sexual text messages may make things more difficult. Especially if your partner was in an awkward situation to respond properly. Treat the start of your sexting session like flirting and keep it exciting and enticing.
- I wish you could be with me now.
- It’s so cold, hold on let me put on some clothes.
- I just bought some new underwear/bra/nightie I can’t wait to show you!
- My hands were busy, but they took a break to text you.
- My legs are missing you in between them.
- I’m imagining what we would be doing if you were here now.
- Have I mentioned lately how hot it is when you. (say something your partner does that turns you on here. Like biting their lip or the way they say something)
- Do you want to play with me?
Dirty Fun Games
Asking your partner to play with you is a great way to start sexting with innuendo. You can follow it up with any of these games to keep the arousal building. These will also help you get to know what your partner likes and doesn’t like.
- Would you rather? – This is a great game for new sexual partners or ones who have been together for a while. Start off with tamer questions then build up to the dirty stuff.
- Simon says- This will definitely get things going in the right direction. The key is to make sure you are actually doing what your partner says. Simon can say things from tell me a dirty story to play with some part of your body. Make sure to occasionally not say Simon says and make a naughty punishment like loser sends a sexy pic.
- Truth or dare. – This is one of the easiest and sexiest ways to help get past the inhibitions of sexting. If one of you chooses dare send pictures of you completing the task. Just remember to delete all the dirty ones you wouldn’t want someone to find after you’re done playing.
Hopefully some of these suggestions will help you start off your next sexting session on the right note. What’s your favorite way to let your partner know you want to sext?
