If you’re married and need a little makeover in the bedroom we are here with some pretty simple small changes to implement to reinvigorate your sex life.

Go Shopping

It doesn’t matter how you identify gender-wise a new pair of sexy underwear can seriously improve your mood in the bedroom. The goal here isn’t so much to be eye candy for your partner, but to make you feel excited, confident, and super sexy, so pick something that you know you look good in. When you feel confident and sexy you will radiate that to your partner.

Show and tell

Share a fantasy with your partner! Tell them what you would like to happen in detail, and they show them how you want to be touched while you explain it. By opening up with each other, you’re building intimacy and proving your mutual trust, the worst that can happen is your spouse doesn’t want to try that fantasy but may be willing to do something similar to it.

Sext like you’re newly wed’s

sexting is a great way to stay connected and build anticipation. Start with something simple, like, “I’m thinking about you.” Then, when they respond, tell them exactly what you’re thinking about. If you aren’t sure how to sext check out our Master Sexting Series, with new articles every Monday.

Take a break

Not a break from each other, but a break from life. The quarantine can be a lot of strain on a relationship. If you can’t actually get away try incorporating a favorite moment from your honeymoon, like drinking a pinacolato from an actual coconut together in your back yard with an ocean soundtrack playing.

Revamp

If you’re trying to freshen up your sex life, try freshening up the place it mostly takes place. Get rid of the piles of paper, laundry in the corner, and kids’ toys and make your boudoir an adults-only escape. Really focus on decluttering and giving yourselves space to get away and feel relaxed and intimate together.