Given the role that sex plays in our lives, it’s good to put some time and thought into pleasing our partners. One way to do this is to know what positions please you and your partner the most.
There are countless sex positions and styles; some of them are really cool, while some are just plain weird and might result in a fractured hip. Making love is all about fun and pleasure, so we’re going to steer clear of any positions that ought to come wrapped in caution tape. Here are some of the best and most practical sex positions (perfect for those of us who aren’t built like contortionists) which can be used to rock your partner, and won’t leave you feeling like you just crawled out of a mosh pit.
Missionary
This is the traditional old fashioned sexual position that has been in existence right from time immemorial. Even the cave men enjoyed it. It is the most popular sexual position in the world, and most sexual engagements always do involve the missionary positions as one of the positions.
Sex experts believe that most women get the most pleasure out of the basic missionary sex.
“Interestingly, when we surveyed women, good old-fashioned missionary position was the overall favourite. There’s nothing fancy about it, but women said they loved the closeness and the intimacy of having their partner’s weight on them,” says Solot.
Los Angeles-based sex expert and radio host Lora Somoza says to make sure you’re entering her at the correct angle if you want the position to be effective. “By going in diagonally—rather than straight in and out—there’s more friction for clitoral stimulation, which is best, since that’s how most women achieve orgasm.”
Though traditional and old, it is still a style that rocks any day, and brings intimacy into the love making as you can look into each other’s eyes, make love, giggle and talk at the same time.
Reverse Cowgirl
This sexual position involves the man lying or sitting down; while the woman straddles him backwards; facing the lower part of his body instead of his face. The renowned Sexologist and sexuality educator, Megan Andelloux, states that it’s a sexual position that allows easy access to the clitoris.
“Because of the easier clitoral access, this position is the one that is most likely to facilitate an orgasm because direct clitoral stimulation is easy to engage in.”
Though the cowboy hat and spurs are optional, wrangle yourself into this position and make her clit scream YEEEHAAW!
Doggie Style
Men love the doggie style for so many reasons as it allows for deeper penetration and dominance. It is also great for the woman as it gives her the best control. This position is very popular, perhaps second to the missionary style.
“She is able to adjust her range of motion for an angle that feels best,” says Amy Levine, a sex coach.
This is a position for those interested in digging deep; and could leave your partner wobbly legged and woofing for more.
Girl on Top
This position places the woman in total control of the grinding; with the man at her mercy. This also allows her to have complete control of her orgasm. With the woman on top, the man could make the affair more exciting by moving his hips up and down. This position requires a joint effort to be really effective and fun. It also gives the man full access to the use of his hands to fondle her breasts for more sexual excitement. This position also allows the woman easy access to her clitoris as well as control over depth, motion and tempo. Get ‘em girls!
Spooning
This position is meant for those ladies that don’t like deep penetration. This style concentrates more on the stimulation of the front portion of the vagina or rectum, which is where the most nerves are located in the genitals. Spooning is pleasurable since it creates a tighter fit in the vagina and rectum, so if a woman is looking for more stimulation from her partner’s fingers or penis, then just spoon away.
Crisscross
This position is great for clitoral stimulation. It involves both partners lying down with the woman on her back, and the man on his side; with her legs wrapped over his middle like a giant X. No need to crisscross your fingers in hopes she’ll orgasm with this one! Since your bodies aren’t squished against each other, either you or she can reach down to rub her clitoris and this is what most women need to reach the elusive orgasm.
The Pillow Technique
This involves using a pillow or blanket to create a new angle of entry. It could be very pleasurable for a woman when this is done right. The woman should go missionary, then
put a pillow under her tush to give a pelvic lift. That can also help the man rub her g-spot with his penis. It is important to note that the kind of prop that works for some might make your woman uncomfortable, so don’t be afraid to try a few different heights until you get it right. This position is sure to rock both partners if properly done.
Like I said, there are tons of sex positions out there, but these ones are the most practical and sure to take your lady to cloud nine!
Keeps the love going!
