Sex is a lot of fun, I think we can all agree there, but just because we love it doesn’t mean we’re doing it right. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you don’t know how to do it, just that sometimes getting a little overzealous can lead to less enjoyment. As women, we aim to please, and we are typically willing to try any of those new positions you learned about, but some of those sex positions just don’t work for us. Here is a little insight into what we aren’t telling you doesn’t work.
The balancing act may have been a favorite of your’s in that last hot skin flick you watched, but it’s not the most comfortable for us. Typically we are so focused on trying to stay balanced that it becomes more of a circus act than an enjoyable experience.
Going “balls deep” can seem like the thing to do, but when you’re doing the deep six, depending on your size, it can be painful. It also takes all the control away from the woman, and leaves us in a position where we just have to just let you do your thing.It may be a fetish for some, but odds are your girl is not very comfortable with having her butt in your face. So the 69, on top of being relatively uncomfortable, is one that will most likely make her self conscious and less able to enjoy.
The bridge is another position that sounds great in theory, but in practice requires way too much upper arm strength from the woman. This ends up making us feel like we just went to the gym instead of having a hot steamy roll in the hay.
If you thought you could fix the issues with the bridge by doing the arched bridge, sorry to tell you this one has its own problems too. Women like intimacy, and this position leaves the girl feeling like she’s riding a wild buck rather than connecting with her loved one.
So there it is boys, you may like to try these positions and I’m not saying not to. Just remember to read her responses and make sure she’s enjoying it too. Try not to stay too long in the more awkward ones, and make sure it’s give and take.
