While some people enjoy sex as a one-time thing, some like their sexual partners to be in for the long run. But no matter what, every man and woman holds sex regrets in their hearts. Sex regrets are like anything else, you do it now but then later you feel guilty, sad or just plain weird. Most of the sex regrets might relate to not doing something right, having sex for the wrong reasons, or down right just sleeping with the wrong person!
Losing Virginity to a One Night Stand: A survey conducted by a relationship site, Your Tango, has revealed that not only woman but also some men count losing virginity to the wrong person as a sex regret. Woman in general, talk about how losing virginity is a very personal experience and a very a very prominent one too. They believe that losing it to someone who they won’t talk to again feels as if they have shared a very big experience with a stranger and it doesn’t feel right. Some men also regret having had sex with a girl who they never got to see again. They said that having sex with someone who they would be for a long time would have been more exciting and memorable.
Not Having Sex with Enough People: While many women be thought of as a slut for having sex with more than a handful of guys in their lifetime, men are almost expected to have multiple partners. Once a man settles down with the love their life, or even just their love of right now, they may have regrets that they haven’t have sex with enough people. There is no right or wrong number of how many people to have sex with, but some people do wonder if they are missing out if they haven’t done it enough.
Having Sex With Un-Attractive Person: Sometimes in the moment, or at last call, you make a bad decision to settle and have sex with whoever is available. Try not to think about the right now and think about that walk of shame or coyote ugly in the morning.
Being Too Afraid to Approach a Person For Sex: Another regret that goes along with not having sex with enough people. Maybe your regret about not having sex with enough people is becuase you didn’t put yourself out there and approach a potential partner.
Not Being Sexually Adventurous when Single: You have nothing to lose. Sometimes sex is funny, sometimes there are weird sounds, or weird props. Let it go and allow yourself to be adventurous and put yourself out there. What’s the worse that can happen?
Making a Sex Tape: Don’t put yourself so far out there that you have permanent proof on the internet! It is one thing to put yourself out there and try that new sex swing you have been eyeing up. It’s another thing for your mother to see the video on the internet. A lot of celebrities (wanna be celebrities) think that a sex tape is the way to make your celeb status concreit, think Teen Mom Farrah, but they almost always regret doing so. So will you!
Sleeping with the Wrong Person: Mostly men hold this sex regret, and that is to have slept with the wrong person, mostly a close friend or a friend of friend. Men mostly have sex with someone in the heat of the moment, and then regret it later. For example, man men regret having slept with girls who they were just friends with, thus making things awkward between them.
Sleeping with a Married Person: This regret is common in men and women both. You go out on a date, bring someone back and have a night of steamy sex, later to find out that the person you warmed the bed with is married and has a family. Women and men both regret this because they find it wrong to have had sex with, although unintentionally, someone who is a wife/ husband of another person. Some men also regret having slept with their best friends’ wives and stuff like that, because what they did in the moment could lead up to something serious, like a fight or a divorce.
Not Getting Called After: Now, this particular regret, as we all know it, is common in almost all women who date. They go out on a date, and knowing that the guy is a player they still go back to his apartment and sleep with him. In the morning, he takes the number and promises to call but the call never comes. Women feel like they gave themselves to the wrong person and also feel used because as most men are only thinking about sex, women want it to develop into something more intimate.
