Sex is an integral part of the lives most members of the male species. We all know the old stereotype that men brag about their exploits to each other and that they think about sex every seven seconds. While this isn’t necessarily true, there is science to show that sex and orgasmic release aids both physical and mental health. So how would you dudes like to get a few sex tips to up your game and impress your ladies in the sack?
The “Bedroom” Settings
Want to wow her? Show her your imaginative side! Sex doesn’t have to be confined to the actual bedroom, and there is a definite thrill to be had by being adventurous! Your “bedroom” could be the back of a car, a building under construction, the beach, a football field, a dark corner in a public place, a swimming pool or anywhere (safe!) that you can dream up! Take a tip from real estate; location, location, location!
Talk to Her
While making love to a woman, talk to her! Don’t just go pounding away at her; add a little romance.
Communication and checking is with your partner is a must. Ask her what position she likes, if you can go down on her, or just check in to make sure that she’s having fun. Also, give dirty talk a shot! Talking dirty can add excitement and take the experience to another whole new level. If you’ve never tried it before, don’t be afraid to make a bit of a fool of yourself. Sex is fun, so have some! If you say something silly and end up with your foot in your mouth, make up for it by putting their’s in your mouth next!
However, don’t ask useless provoking questions like, “Who was the last man that made love to you like I’m doing now?” Good rule of thumb: don’t ask a question you’re not ready to hear the answer to.
Touch Her
There are some very sensitive parts of the female anatomy that are loaded with sex nerves ready to explode. These parts are often regarded as the erogenous zones. They differ in sensitivity with different women. These erogenous zones include the ears, the lips, the tongue, the back of the head, the clitoris, the navel, the nipples of the breast, the underside of the thighs, the toes, the neck, etc.
You must learn to touch these parts of her body without being mechanical. Take it slow at first, although there will come a time to be fast and aggressive. For now take it slow and listen to how what you do makes her feel. Her body will give you all the answers you need as long as you’re willing to pay attention. Engage in some foreplay to get her eager and wet. Make her desperate. Make her beg to be made love to.
Take Your Time
No matter how anxious and eager you are to get into the bone zone, you might just make your lady happier if you would just take your time. Make it about her, and she will totally reward you in kind!
Even when the ride has begun, don’t get too hasty. Always know when to slow down and increase tempo. You can also know these things if you don’t rush, and think instead. Easier said than done, I know, but try and save some of that blood for your brain and think it through. No one wants things to end as soon as it has begun.
Make her feel like she is the best lay
You can make your lady seem like she is the best girl you have ever made love to without having to compare her with others you have slept with. How? Just say it. Telling her she’s wonderful, even if she scorns at you and makes reference to other women you must have had, just tell her she is wonderful and mean it, and then seal it with a kiss. That alone will speak volumes. Intimacy will go a long way in making the experience more genuine.
Enjoy the afterglow with her
Some men will flee the scene immediately post-orgasm. This is not a particularly good idea. Though there are exceptions to every rule, some women love to cherish the afterglow that comes with the experience, especially if they like you. Rushing off to shower or make a call will not put you in good stead with her, especially if you guys are just starting to hit it off. It tends to make us feel dirty and unimportant if you just cum and go.
Just hold her and continue to whisper sweet nonsense into her ears. Women love such things, and it doesn’t take away anything from your manliness. Some men believe that it is a sign of weakness to be romantic. This is not true. The most romantic men are always the strongest men around since they can table and check their emotions. Besides, is it more important to seem like the manliest guy out there or the one with the most satisfied woman?
You want to impress your lady in bed. Take note of what we have touched on so far, introduce them into your relationship and see just what a difference it makes.
