Snapchatting a sexy nude selfie may seem like a great way to get things going, however if you don’t fully trust him not to screen shot, sending him sexy words is much safer. Suggestive sexts can do just as much if not more to get you both hot and bothered, and there is no risk of your lady bits being spread around social media, or the locker room.
Remember to start subtle, and suggestive. It may be tempting to just skip right to the steamy stuff, but building the right mood is just as important in sexts as it is in sex. The key to sending sexy sexts is to keep it interesting and subtle at first. Don’t go overboard let it build naturally. Try some of these to get started:
“I’ve been thinking about you all day”
“You know how to push the right buttons.”
“Are you alone tonight? Want to play a game?”
“I was thinking about you in the shower today.”
“There’s this really cute guy I’ve been thinking about all day long . . . what should I do about it?”
“Nothing gets me hotter than thinking about you.”
Once things are heading in the right direction next you’ll want to step up the excitement and intensity. Add some passion and lust into your messages, here are some examples to get your creative juices flowing.
“I just laid in bed for the last hour thinking about you…guess what I was doing!”
“I came so hard last night thinking about you. It’s a pity my hands aren’t nearly as good as the real thing”
“What would you enjoy more: a quick hand job or a long drawn out sex session tonight?”
“Tonight I am going to bite you, slap you, choke you and make you my personal sex slave”
“Your cock is going to pulse with complete pleasure tonight.”
Remember your messages can be as long or as short as you want them. Don’t worry about writing to much as long as it’s sexy and not just wordy. Check out these examples of longer sexts, that are still super sexy.
“I’m going to slowly trace my lips over yours, softly massaging them. Then I’m going to kiss you…from your lips…to your neck…down to your chest…down to your cock. But, I’m not going to take it straight into my mouth. I’m going to keep kissing it until you beg me for more.”
“Your mine. And I’m going to mark my territory. I’m going to bite you. Your neck, your chest, your legs and your ass. They’re going to be covered in bruises from my teeth. And your back? I’m marking that too. I’ve sharpened my nails so I can tear it up. You’ve got a lot of pleasure and pain coming your way, boy.”
Don’t forget to finish off as strong as you would in person! It’s the perfect chance for you to let them know how much you enjoy making them cum.
“You’re not going to be able to move after I’m finished with you tonight”
“I’m going to drain every last drop of cum out of you”
“I want to feel your cum dripping down the back of my throat”
“I love feeling your cock pulse and throb inside me”
We hope these examples help get you going in the right direction!
