Asking for sex is okay, begging can be unattractive. If you want to get laid, but don’t want to look needy here are some sexy ways to ask for some action.
Whisper “I want you tonight” in her ear as soon as you both get home. Follow this by a kiss.
Ask, “I would love to spend time with you tonight, what can I do around the house (or with the kids) to give us time for that?”
When she gets dressed in the morning, compliment her and tell her you would like to watch her get dressed in reverse tonight.
Set the alarm 30 minutes early, roll over and snuggle. *Warning* this only works for a partner who is a morning person.
Send a text in the middle of the day, letting them know you were thinking of them and planning a special evening together.
Turn off the TV show you are watching and tell them, “I would rather spend time with you than watch that.”
Leave her a note in the morning; put it in their car, or somewhere they will find it during the day. In the card tell them how much you love and want them. Be specific.
Eat in, device free. Spend the time eating together to talk and connect. Suggest retiring to the bedroom for dessert.
Spend some time cleaning and organizing your bedroom, then set the mood with candles and soft music. Invite them to join you in your oasis together.
Greet your partner with a passionate kiss, not the normal “hello dear” kiss, but a passionate, desire filled “I want more” kind of kiss.
Buy some massage oil and have it waiting in your room warming in hot water. Spend time massaging them moving from extremities in.
Be direct, use words like “desire, connected, time together, and love”. Avoid words like, “wanna, need, or pleeeaseeee”.
Being assertive can be very sexy, so make sure you get your point across without beating around the bush, and they’ll be beating around your bush sooner than you know.
