We aren’t talking whips, chains, or booty play, but these casually kinky acts will introduce some spice into your sex life without taking things to far into kink play.
Meet up for “casual sex”
Enjoy an evening in a king bed, that you don’t have to wash the sheets after, wearing nothing but expensive bath robes. Order a bottle of bubbly and hors d’oeuvres to the room, turn your phones off and take care of both your needs. Feeling adventurous? Book a room on a high floor and do it standing with curtains open and your back against the windows.
Standing “O”
While we are talking about standing up for sex, you don’t have to be in a high rise to get a rise out of this small change. Trade horizontal sex for standing sex. This will force you to try new positions and, once you master a few, you’ll be able to get spontaneous in tight spaces, if public sex is something on your sex bucket list.
Props
When it comes to adding props to your bedroom you don’t have to run right out to a toy store. Does your girl keep unusual amount of throw pillows around the house? You don’t need to break the bank to buy a sex rig. Take those extra pillows and use them as props! If missionary is your position of choice, intensify it by placing one or two pillows under your hips. Edibles are another great one. Chocolate whipped cream ice cube, or genuine edibles can shake up your normal routine.
If your main spice issues is the lack of sex scheduling sex may seem like the opposite of sexy, but it’s more libido-inducing than you think. Carving out time for pleasure and sticking to your schedule will ensure that intimacy is ever-present it’ll also increase your sex drive spending the time letting your brain build up to what’s to come! We hope these ideas for a hotter sex life with your lover keep things sizzling between you.
