My least favorite position is missionary, but for many people its their go to in the bedroom. While I agree there is something to be said for having your lover on top of you feeling their body pressed against yours and being able to look in their eyes and watch their face as they enjoy themselves, I just need more. If you’re like me don’t worry! There are a few tricks I’ve learned to make missionary manageable.
Missionary position can be hot all on its own when its not the only position all the time, so try keeping to their position and just making a minor adjustment. Simply lift your leg and wrap it over his shoulder, not only will this help let him deeper inside you but will give him easier access to grab your ass. Plus there’s something to be said for the feel of your smooth calf rubbing against his cheek while he’s buried inside you, contrasting sensations can heighten the experience. You can take this a step farther and throw both legs over his shoulder lifting your ass off the bed which will let him get even deeper, but then were moving over a little close to the pretzel position.
One of the best parts of him being on top is that your hands are free, use them! Grab his head and pull him in to kiss, or even better grab his ass as he’s thrusting and pull him deeper into you or just hold onto his hips and control his pace. Wrap your arms around him and hug him closer to you letting the friction between you warm your bodies even more, and run your nails down his back. You can also get a little more self involved and play with yourself, you have limitless options if going straight for your clit is a bit much for you start with your nipples.
Wrap your legs around his waist and lift your pelves to meet his thrusts, this can be especially rewarding as you orgasm since you can tighten your legs around him to keep him deep inside you the entire time.
Keep in mind that missionary doesn’t have to be boring, touch him, caress him, claw him, do whatever you need to do to make it more enjoyable for you. Got a suggestion we haven’t listed? Leave us a comment we would love to know!
