No one really talks about if they should spit or swallow or warn their partner they are about to climax before they begin oral. So, if you aren’t the type to clarify exactly how you expect things to end we are here to help manage potential awkwardness of not knowing if you should swallow be splattered or have tissues on standby to spit into. We’ve gathered the reasons and perspectives of people all over the web to help you mentally prepare for next time this moment arises.
I swallow when I’m not trying to get dirty, and spit if there are rounds of sex to come.
It depends on the situation, the partner and how I feel in the moment. Each action has its merits, and I’ve done all of them. I feel swallowing is more personal, intimate and romantic while spitting is more practical. If I’m going to have semen on me, I prefer on my boobs—so I can watch! On the other hand, eating semen is such a personal thing.
Spit if we just met, and swallow for ease! But recently I’ve been with someone who’s very into cum-swapping and seeing his cum dripping in general.
I don’t know if it says anything about the relationship. I just think it’s hot to feel the cum in my mouth and running down my throat. It’s like a prize for doing a good job! It’s kinda like they “own you” when they put their cum inside of you, which is something I like to feel during sex.
When I’m making a decision to leave the cum in my mouth and swallow it, it’s like I’m politely putting away the mess.
I don’t leave the situation to go spit—that would be make me feel like I was at the dentist or some shit. I just let it seep out of my mouth onto myself or him. Then I clean it up with a T-shirt or a rag. The most ideal situation is for cum not to enter my mouth at all though. I try to aim it on my face or tits. Personally, seeing the cum is more sensational, and erotic.
The best advice is to just communicate! You can avoid the awkward moment all together but just giving your partner a heads up of what you personally prefer or asking what they want before things even start.
