Oral sex is less about making her cum as quickly as possible and more about slowly pouring your full love and attention into her body. Foreplay is almost always the single most important part of eating pussy and bringing a woman to orgasm. So, if you know where her clit is, and you know to take it slow and not skip the foreplay you are already off to a great start! These tips will build on those basics to have her back bending and thighs gripping your face when she does cum.
When using your tongue, it’s always best to keep it flat, wide, and relaxed, rather than making pointed stabbing motions. You shouldn’t be pushing or leaning in at all, at least at the beginning. Just solid contact from your tongue and the texture of your taste buds will be plenty good. You should gradually increase both your pressure and your speed. let her body acclimate to a slow, steady stream of sensation and build up her arousal. Then you can gradually start working up to a crescendo.
If you think she’s responding well to something, verbally confirm that she likes it. That doesn’t mean stop what you’re doing to look up and ask “Do you like that?” rather let your breath add to the pleasure while you speak and make it dirty “You like that baby?” growled with your mouth still against her will get a way better response. If she doesn’t seem to be enjoying it change up your strokes, and don’t forget to stimulate the rest of her body with your hands while you’re down there.
Do not stop if she starts to squirm. Female orgasms BUILD. You might feel a few slow pulsing contractions begin around the vulva. You’ll likely feel her hips rock deeper, accompanied with quicker breathing, she might even start arching against you so hard you can’t breathe. Do Not Stop. Keep doing exactly what you are doing at exactly the same pace and pressure. Switching up your technique now can distract her body from the building orgasm. You will know once she is finished even just the slightest kiss will send after shocks rippling through her body.
We promise if you do these things she’s going to think you have a master’s degree in cunnilingus.
