Saturdays were made for exploring all the different and marvelous things about sex and sexuality. If you think you know all there is to know about sex, well think again and read on. You are about to jump in and uncover some of the most superbly silly and straight up strangest things there are in the world of sex. This Saturday we are going to be talking about some of the baby steps into BDSM you may already be doing in your bedroom without even realize how kinky you actually are.
Subtle Sub/Top (D/S)
The idea that all Doms relish sadistically exploiting Subs with little regard to their pleasure is untrue. Not only do subs derive pleasure from be dominated, but they don’t always consent to sadistic play. In fact, subbing can be as simple as being told not to touch yourself or your partner while preforming oral sex. If you enjoy begging for or being begged for sex, or for orgasm you are also engaging in a sub dom exchange.
Sensation Play
Ice cubes and candle wax have both become common bedroom additions. If warming, cooling, or tingling lube have ever tickled your…fancy then chances are sensation play is a turn on for you. You can easily explore this by adding a blindfold and trying out different sensations. For example, run a feather over sensitive area’s then follow behind it with bites and nibbles. The contrasting sensations may just drive you wild.
Pain Play
That quick sting of a smacked ass can send endorphins rushing thought your body adding to your sexual high. If you’re sure you like the pain then a flogger may really up your game, however that wouldn’t really be a baby step. The pain they provide aren’t overly intense, however they look intimidating so they can seriously step things up. If you are looking for a smaller step to explore your pain play Clothespins can be adjusted, applied anywhere, and quickly removed. They are a good way to experiment with your pain threshold. Just remember if you leave them on to long often the sensation upon their removal can be more intense than the initial pinch.
We will see you next Saturday for more strange sex!
