Not to be confused with edging, the practice of bringing someone to the brink of orgasm without achieving climax, edgeplay is on the spectrum of the BDSM world. It is known as R.A.C.K sex, or risk-aware consensual kink. In other words, the practices associated with edgeplay push one’s limits both psychologically and physiologically.
What is it
Edgeplay activities are vast and can vary quite drastically from person to person. As a general rule of thumb, edgeplay is best described as pushing someone to their own personal limits, or their “edge.” Another aspect to consider with edgeplay is the risk factor or danger levels involved with said practices. Sensual spanking, for example, would not be considered edgeplay. This is because the risk level of spanking is relatively low to practically non-existent. While there are potential risks involved, the participants do not partake in edgeplay with an underlying desire to come as close to death as humanly possible, nor do they wish to actually die. Rather it is the potential of danger that is titillating and enticing to them, not actual death itself.
Why people are turned on flirting with death
it is natural for human beings to be tempted into unknown territories. People’s fascinations with death have and always will exist. From being intrigued with true crime to young ladies falling in love with serial killers, we each have our own fascination will death in one way or another. Curiosity into the realm of the beyond is one thing that will eternally remain unknown. We are attracted to what we cannot have, what we cannot know, perceive, touch, see or smell. Perhaps one of the most common and ultimate taboos is that of this forbidden knowledge.
Common forms of edgeplay
One common edgy practice is one that involves bleeding. Whether it be by cutting, whipping lacerations or needle play (also called piercing play), drawing blood is considered an extreme kink because of the potential risks that come along with it. Another common practice that falls under this category is breath play. This is one of the more common forms because of the dangerous scenarios it opens doors to. Whether the asphyxiation is brought on manually via choking, or done with a plastic bag, belt, immersion in water, you name it, breath play can potentially lead to unconsciousness, brain damage and even death. Fire play is another practice that isn’t as often discussed as blood or breath play, but of course, still poses serious risks. This is not to be confused with wax play where hot candle wax is poured directly on the skin. Fire play incorporates actual fire into the mix and may cause significant burns, decreased sensation (if done on the genitals) as well as accidentally lighting your bed on fire.
Arguably the most dangerous form of sexual kink out there, edgeplay proudly claims this title because of its ability to push the limits of one’s own life. Despite the dangers involved, if done properly, consensually and sanely, the risks associated with edgeplay will be significantly decreased. If this practice is appealing to you, make sure to do your research beforehand. Talk to others who have been established within the scene and don’t be shy to ask questions! We will see you next week for more exploration into the stranger sides of sex.
