In case you’ve lost count of the days of the week, today is Saturday. That means here at TalkToMe.com its time to get strange! For most people sex is a common and pleasurable part of life. However, for others it can be a serous source of stress and even fear! This week we have collected exactly that for you. Sexual fears, that’s right if sex makes you uncomfortable, you are not alone!
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Many people have fears of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, or even getting pregnant. Surprisingly, nearly as worrisome as an unintended pregnancy is the fear that a person’s partner won’t find him or her attractive. You read that right. For some people instead of focusing on foreplay they are wrapped in fear that they are unattractive or will not be able to satisfy their partner visually during sex. These fears range for low self esteem issues to fears of making strange faces or sounds and completely ruining the moment.
Satisfaction
A surprising number of people think of sex with a sense of dread because they are worried they will not properly please their partner. Premature ejaculation, penis size, and inability to bring their partner to orgasm top these fears, however there are also many who are just afraid they will be generally bad at sex.
Uncontrollable
During sex, couples may experience unfavorable bodily functions, encounter misunderstandings, and even blurt out unintended words or noises. Although these occurrences are perfectly natural, some people may find them embarrassing. Embarrassing enough that they would rather avoid sex than risk a poorly timed queef, or their dirty talk being too dirty.
Does sex make your heart race and your palms break out in sweat? We would love to know why in the comments below! We will see you next Saturday for more strange sex adventures!
