Saturdays are notoriously lazy days, and around here Saturdays are all about opening and expanding our minds to the “stranger” sides of sex and sexuality, so for this weeks strange sex Saturday we are combining the two and taking a look into Somnophilia, or sleeping beauty fetish.
What is it?
With all the news surrounding Bill Cosby’s recent release you may have caught on that for some people sex with someone who is not conscious is a whole thing, however consent is important to note. We are going to talk about the kink for resting intercourse, which is fully consensual and agreed upon before anyone goes to sleep. Somnophilliacs like to preform intercourse while their partner is asleep. Others prefer to be the obtaining end, and invite their partner to preform sexual acts to them while they’re unconscious, either with the goal of waking up to discover what’s happening, or even merely find out about this later on.
Important information
Sleeping beauty sex falls into the CNC (consensual non-consent) category of BDSM so make sure you have discussed your boundaries with your partner before beginning, especially if you are employing sleep aids during your play. Make sure to discuss if you will be using restraints, and if the goal is to wake you or to complete the session without you being alerted. You should also discuss if internal ejaculation is permitted, and if protection should be employed.
If sleeping people are your fetish, don’t try to have sex with them without laying down some serious groundwork when you’re both fully awake first. Sleep sex not doing it for you? Come back next Saturday for more strange sex adventures and you’re sure to find what puts you to bed in no time!
