Did you know that studies show only about 6% of women can come from internal penetration alone? That means that 94% of women NEED to have a blended orgasm to cum. A blended orgasm results from stimulating both the clitoris and the inside of the vagina at the same time. We’ve got the run down on everything you need to know to take cuming to the next level.
The Basics
The clitoris extends up to five inches inside your body, roughly framing your labia. When you experience a blended orgasm, you’re most likely stimulating the external and internal parts of the clitoris. There are a few other nerves surrounding the vagina and the cervix that may be involved in orgasm as well, so as you set out to achieve the blended orgasm, touch all parts of the inside of the vagina to see what works.
Starting Out
The first step is to locate the G-spot. You can find it by inserting two fingers into her vagina with your palm facing up and towards you. About two inches inside you should feel a spot where the tissue is slightly rougher or more textured than the surrounding vaginal wall. Once you’ve found her G-spot, leave it alone for a moment. Since the external clitoris is so sensitive, it can be easier to build up pleasurable, pre-orgasm feelings there and then add internal stimulation once she’s really revved up.
Practical Play
Once you’ve figured out what combinations and locations work best for your partner its time to start incorporating blended orgasms into your everyday sex life. One of the easiest positions to incorporate internal and external play is doggy style. While you enter her from behind don’t forget to reach around and stroke her clit. If you prefer less strenuous sex positions, consider a vibrating cock ring for hands free stimulation, or encouraging her to add in a little masturbation during sex.
