If you are thinking about using a cock ring for the first time or are just wondering if you are using it to its maximum capabilities, we are here to help! Cock rings are one of the safest sex toys on the market when used mindfully. They not only enhance sexual sensation for the fellas, but for the ladies as well. So, they are not only safe, but also versatile sex toys that make a great addition to any toy collection.

What are they?

A cock ring is a ring made of silicone, metal, leather, rubber, nitrile, plastic, Velcro, or even rope, which is placed at the base of a penis to restrict blood flow to the member, which in turn results in harder and longer-lasting erections, and can increase the intensity of orgasms for both of you. If you’re new to cock rings start with an adjustable one. Adjustable rings allow you to choose from a variety of constriction levels around the genitals while having the ability to take it off fast if the sensation becomes too intense or uncomfortable. Non-adjustable rings are typically worn behind the testicles and are typically used by  more experienced c-ring players.

Why use one?

C-Rings help to achieve and sustain harder, firmer erections (even post ejaculation), and can intensify orgasms too. If you like the look of a big cock, rings bring focus to the appearance of genitals in a way many men aren’t used to. Some people find that cock rings cause them to have more intense orgasms because the body has a longer window of time to build up sensation (that’s right ladies, it can delay the male orgasm too). C-Rings can be textured, have in-built vibrators, feature cock and ball dividers, and some even include anal stimulators.

How do you use one?

Choose a ring that suits both partner’s needs then read its individual instructions carefully. A C-Ring should be placed around the shaft of the cock or around both the cock and balls in a flaccid or only semi erect state. Placing it around both results in a harder erection, and more intense stimulation. Take a small amount of lube and spread it around the inside of the ring beforehand for greater ease. If the ring you selected is only for the cock, then simply slide it on down to the base of the shaft. If the ring is meant for both cock and balls, then one testicle at a time should be carefully placed through the ring, once both balls are in the hoop go ahead and slide the cock right on through. For extra-easy removal of the ring, trim or shave pubic hair, or just use more lube.

What position should you use it in?

This can change depending on the type of ring you bought. For instance, vibrating cock rings let you both enjoy an engorged penis while getting all the stimulation you need. One with a thick upper part that vibrates against the clitoris is great for girl on-top positions. Instead of thrusting, grind against the rumble part for a slow-burn explosion. However, if your ring is made from a rougher material that may friction burn the clit try doggy style. You may love being able to watch your supersized dick sliding home from an elevated view.

Don’t have a penis? Don’t worry, you can slide a vibrating cock ring over your favorite dildo and transform it into an internal and external stimulator.