Trying something new in the bedroom can be daunting. We are here to help make the experience as enjoyable as possible. If you are trying out some new sex positions here are our tied-and-true tips for making things go as smoothly as possible.

Look it up

A quick glance at a sex position illustration does give you a pretty good idea about how to perform it. However, this tip is all about understanding its best execution. Take the time to read its description, each position’s description includes tips on getting maximum stimulation and often slight variations of the pose that produce different sensations.

Open lines of Communication

We cannot say this enough when trying new things: Your partner can’t read your mind. If something feels good, let out a moan or tell them you like it. Guide your partner by telling them if you want it harder or faster. The more open communication is between the two of you the better sex will be in general.

Try and try again

I bet the first time you rode a bike it was not a very successful attempt. The same principle applies when trying new sex positions. When trying a sex pose for the first time it might feel awkward. Give it at least three good tries before deciding if it will be a part of your repertoire.

Don’t be afraid to modify

Everyone’s body is shaped differently. It’s okay to modify the sex position in a way that fits you and your partner’s bodies. If anything hurts, stop and try to make positioning adjustments that might help. If it continues to hurt no matter what you try, it’s time to move on to another one.

Don’t expect to dive right into a new position using all the moves and toys. When trying a new sex position, start by getting comfortable with being in that pose. Once you’re good with that, slowly add in techniques that are described in the position’s description or try variations of the pose. If you try it all at once, it will probably be overwhelming and you may not be able to execute every aspect perfectly to start.