Oral sex can be an integral part of foreplay and is great for that quickie when you are running short on time. If you’re just picky about what you put in your mouth then there’s really nothing we can do for you, however if all that’s holding you back is your gag reflex we have some tips to help you learn to swallow that sword like a pro.
First things first, RELAX. Just like with anything else you do in the bedroom, or kitchen, or shower tensing up and stressing will effect your body and the amount of pleasure you both derive from the experience. Chances are no matter what you do he’s going to enjoy it anyway, so don’t put to much pressure on yourself.
We’ve said it before but incase you’ve missed it LUBE LUBE LUBE! Seriously ladies sex without lube is like a slip and slide without water…the wetter the better for you both! There’s also a whole new generation of products designed exactly for this purpose. http://www.amazon-associate.com/Doc-Johnson-Goodhead-Variety-Flavors/dp/B0041U568G/ref=pd_bxgy_121_img_3/175-5888095-3988418?ie=UTF8&refRID=1K697541WDBH4BZ4BXT0 go try them and let us know how you like them, if lube just really isn’t your thing this line also has sprays and “breath mints.”
As with everything else in life practice makes perfect. Again, unless you’re prone to biting, 99.9% of the time he is not going to object to a practice session. Acclimating yourself to the sensation can be as simple as locating your reflex and pushing on it with your tooth brush every day just to get past the initial reaction. But its much more fun to practice on the real thing. Start slow just licking and taking just a little of him into your mouth using your hands to help with any parts you don’t fit. If you do gag don’t worry as long as you haven’t lost your lunch then you’re good. Some guys even prefer the look of a girl choking rather than one who handles it like a pro.
Ok well…maybe not but keep in mind that its called a blow JOB for a reason, you’re going to have to put in work and the training period is essential. Just try to relax and enjoy yourself while you learn.
