Tips for a Better Blow Job

We all love oral sex; there’s no denying that. It’s such an intimate and sensual act, and you don’t even have to get undressed. Whether you are using it as foreplay or it’s the total focus of that sexual interaction, being a skilled fellatio artist will rack you up some serious points in the bedroom, or backseat or a car, or anywhere else you’re willing to get on your knees and do the deed.

Spoiler alert, there’s more to fellatio than simply putting some slob on his knob, or wrapping your gums around his plums. The best oral sexperts use their mouths, tongues, fingers, eyes, voice, and brain. Teeth should be held back unless expressly asked for, no matter how gentle or skilled you may feel you are with them. Rule number one, it may be called a blow job, but you don’t blow. Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, here are a few ways to give your man a better blow job.Enthusiasm is key, so if you’re not in the mood, don’t even bother. There’s nothing more unappealing than an all businesslike approach to chroming his dome. Bobbing away with as much enthusiasm as you bring to paying your bills is not sexy. Don’t see it as a contractual obligation; it should be fun for both of you.

You mouth is far more talented than your vagina, as it can do so much more, so make good use of it. There’s a lot more to smoking the pole than just sucking, so take charge and keep him guessing. Eager head bobbing one minute, followed by slithering your tongue down his shaft, then some passionate kisses around his head, and you won’t hear a single complaint. Mix it up and use all the tools you have; there’s nothing worse than someone who does the same thing in the same order for the same amount of time.Deep throating is great, but if that’s all there is to your oral technique, you need to increase your repertoire. Shoving him all the way down your throat may have his attention at first, but after a couple minutes it gets pretty boring, and he may start to become concerned about your gag reflex and jaws snapping shut. Scary thoughts like that can soften his mood real fast.

Get to know his penis, and I don’t mean just naming it. There are a huge amount of nerve endings around his head, but there is a bunch more in other places, and they’d love those stimulated too. Don’t forget about his balls; a gentle rub or just cupping them and feeling their weight is a great way to increase his sensation.Get to know the rest of his body as well, because he has plenty more erogenous zones, and you can have a lot of fun exploring them. Putting your hands on his butt and pulling him deeper into your mouth is an incredible turn on. Try brushing your cheek against his inner thigh, or trailing your tongue from his bellybutton down; the results will be toe curlingly good.If we’re speaking candidly, you can do a lot more with the look in your eye than a whole bunch of chicken-headery. Never mind what you’ve heard about guys not liking foreplay; tease the hell out of him! They have a perfect view of everything you’re doing down there, so make a sexy show of it. Let him see you appreciating a nice long proud view of his manhood; make him quiver at the feel of your hot breath on his balls. Give it a full minute of slow torture before you go noshing away, and he’ll sink so far down into that couch once you envelope him, he’ll come up with three lost remotes and $8.75 in lost change.

Talk to him, but not with your mouth full. Try slowly jerking him off while you tell him how good he tastes, and how much you can’t wait to make him cum in your mouth. Ask him what he wants next, not only will it make it easier to please him, but it gives him the impression he’s in control, even though we know he’s not.We all know not all women can come to climax through penetration, but that doesn’t mean their partners are unqualified in bed. The same concept goes for some men with oral, so if he’s not blowing his load in two minutes, don’t stress it and don’t stress him.  Take your time, and enjoy the moment. If you pressure him to cum quickly, he may not cum at all. Have fun with it, and appreciate pleasuring your partner, hopefully he’ll be up for returning the favor afterwards!